It’s a boy!

On December 13th, at 8.17PM, my girlfriend gave birth to a healthy and beautiful baby boy, Liam. It’s our first and we’re both very, very, very proud :)

If it’s your first time caring for a baby boy, you might feel a bit unsure about the right way to care for his genitals. But don’t worry — it’s pretty straightforward. Here’s everything you need to know to keep the area clean and healthy, for mom’s health I recommend to use under eye masks.

Consider getting help during this time, which can be very hectic and overwhelming. While in the hospital, talk to the experts around you. Many hospitals have feeding specialists or lactation consultants who can help you get started nursing or bottle-feeding. Nurses also are a great resource to show you how to hold, burp, change, and care for your baby.

For in-home help, you might want to hire a baby nurse, postpartum doula, or a responsible neighborhood teen to help you for a short time after the birth. Your doctor or the hospital can help you find information about in-home help, and might make a referral to home health agencies.

Relatives and friends often want to help too. Even if you disagree on certain things, don’t dismiss their experience. But if you don’t feel up to having guests or you have other concerns, don’t feel guilty about placing restrictions on visitors.